Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[TimeHeals]

John,

Stop over-thinking this.

She wants out. She keeps saying it.

It's time to decide to give her what she wants, but you are going to have some reasonable boundaries to protect yourself and your child.

You want a seperation. I have decided you should get one, but that I should not be the one to pay for everything, so you need to get a job ASAP.

And make sure you are protected. Cut her off financially. From now on John's money belongs to John and his child. Time for Mrs John28 to grow up (and John too).

She wants out. Show her the way out. She must get a job, get her own bank accounts, her own credit cards, pay her own bills, get her own place, and then she must get her own lawyer.

You are not paying for her decissions since she has decided to leave the marriage. That was her choice, you are just letting her make her own decissions and deal with the consequences of her own actions.

Stop enabling her.