Your wife is very likely to respond to what you're doing, and ask back in. You'd be wise to consider AHEAD of time, how you're going to respond.
Puppy
Puppy, Strange thing is one of her friends asked me the same thing regarding would I take her back and my honest answer was I dont know. She prefaced it by saying that she didn't know anything new and was just asking the question and I DO believe her.
Personally I think it is very unlikely that my W will want to come back but who really knows. I have been giving my response a lot of thought but think this is more a part of the healing process for me. Earlier on I would have given her a free passage back into my life but things have changed and i don't think so anymore.
She would have to battle her way though the protective walls I now have up and that I don't really see.
I don't see any obligation right now to stay faithful to her as she has set the stage on that one. The thing on the vacation is that we will still be in the same house when that happens. She wont be a happy camper when I am packing for that.
Anyway I am leading my life with the assumption that she is gone and will continue down that path until I have cause to consider something else. Still very sad for me but I need to get on with my life and that includes female companionship.
BUT I do like your optimism ( it seems like the more convinced I am that all is lost the more you think the opposite :-) )...............thanks
