TH is right, dont concern yourself with how she can pay for this decision she has made. My first S I enabled, bought her a car, gave her some money, and it got me nowhere. You need to stop trying to answer questions that are futuristic, re read your posts, you ask for advice, its given and you pick and choose what advice is thrown out there. You tend to lean more towards the advice of what you want to hear, instead of what you need to hear and follow through with.