Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

Ok I just did a little digging about my state. It seems that if I refused to pay for legal S, I will probably end up paying for it in the end anyways. It is because of my ability to pay, her ability to create income (she has zero work experience and no degree) and doing so could be construed as 'bad faith'. I'm kind of screwed here I think. Not necessarily, but it's a high probability.

Is it a good idea to go along with this to 'protect herself' under the conditions that I need her to have a job and source of income to help pay for this to protect myself? Otherwise I'm just getting screwed every way sideways. She's going to bankrupt us. Under those conditions is your advice any different?