Faith- Sandi is an "Enchanter' as I like to call them. Follow her advice word for word.
Use the Dark Time to figure out the math.
Does your pay go into the joint? If not, get a separate account that can access the joint. Get your pay deposited into the Faith Only acct. If there is money in the joint now, put half in your acct.
Can you carry the house single handed? If not, get a roommate; borrow some money til the house can be sold.
Consider her money GONE. If her pay goes into joint, leave it there.
Again, talk to your lawyer about how to protect yourself from her financially. Do it YESTERDAY!! You need to know the financial obligations and how they will LEGALLY be settled.
I am following Sandi word for word. Please don't think me posting is me caving.
No I can't afford the place by myself.
Both of our money is deposited in Joint, since we still have debt.
I have separate account, but have been using our money to pay down debt. She has a separate account that she has had her bonuses and things deposited.
Not to mention if I start prepping the house for sale I have so much crap to liquidate and pay for storage.
Don't know where to start! I need to save up money but I can't if I get Lawyer. I'd have to put it on my card, which is too high as is. Don't want to waste anymore money.
