I am an idiot. OMG, just had STBXH screaming at me--what in GOD'S name was I thinking opening up to him about my dad?? What in the heck???
He asks me about my dad, I tell him the latest (Crisis nursing has been called in, they think he has about 3 days) and he asks what he can do for me?
And I say can you just be nice to me? He's like, what? And I say you don't have to tell me that I broke the convection oven for one thing (the other day he's accusing me of breaking the convection oven because it doesn't spin very well any more and we've only had since Jan--like this is my fault somehow)
And that led to a 30 minute non-stop tirade about how unhappy HE is and how he has done this and that and it's all my fault.
Wow--I think I validated in there somewhere but what a mistake that was! One good thing, all that stuff just pretty much bounced off of me--so I must be making some sort of progress.
I guess my dad is going to help me GAL. There will be a lot of family coming in that I haven't seen in a long time.
