It sounds like you are both working on things. And that is definitely a good thing! At this point, it is about the co-parenting relationship, but if you can start to rebuild that friendship, you of course have a chance to rebuild a lot more.
Big things are a long time in coming.
It takes a lot of little steps before the WAS is ever ready to actually say something big like "can we date" or "can we give it another try". Months and months and months of baby steps.
Just keep pushing things in the right direction.
There are no guarantees, but you are giving it a chance. Fixing the odds a little bit.
Always a good thing.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2