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Re: Where does the WAW go Doodi #2071982 09/08/10 03:45 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 380 ID J JR09 Member
JR09 Member J Joined: May 2009 Posts: 380 ID	Doodi, Hi. I read your thread with your husband having PTSD,IRQ, etc. Quite similar to my story. My W left over 2 years ago after I had one of occasional anger outbursts following my return from IRQ. I have to tell you I am very glad my W had enough courage to leave and withdraw from the toxic environment we lived in. It takes a lot of courage to leave. With my W gone, I knew I had to make serious changes with myself, so I started counseling. I was afraid of the stigma of being an officer seeking counseling. But at the point where I was, it didn't matter anymore. So I've been in counseling ever since. Saved my life...My W is still away but hasn't divorced me, at least for now. Her being away, living at her parents' gave her time to regroup, take care of herself. I wish she'd go to some type of counseling. She is somehow 'stuck' in her thoughts, whereas I have truly changed in my behavior in everyway. Anyway, Doodi, just wanted you to know that I am cheering you on and congratulate you on taking care of yourself. JR Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11

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Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 10:13 AM
Re: Where does the WAW go	A_goodman	08/28/10 01:02 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Puppy Dog Tails	08/28/10 01:12 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 01:55 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Puppy Dog Tails	08/28/10 02:00 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	pinhead	08/28/10 02:19 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	TimeHeals	08/28/10 02:25 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 02:38 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 02:29 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 02:25 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 02:50 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 02:53 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 02:59 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 03:06 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 03:26 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 03:50 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 04:03 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 04:19 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 04:29 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 04:40 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 05:28 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 05:50 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/28/10 06:02 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	john28	08/28/10 07:17 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	AJM	08/28/10 07:17 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 07:51 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	AJM	08/28/10 08:07 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/28/10 09:50 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	sandi2	08/28/10 11:30 PM
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Re: Where does the WAW go	pinhead	08/29/10 01:16 AM
Re: Where does the WAW go	steady	08/29/10 02:18 AM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/29/10 02:18 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	FindingMyVoice	08/29/10 03:16 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Greek	08/29/10 03:18 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/29/10 06:15 PM
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Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/30/10 11:09 AM
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Re: Where does the WAW go	Doodi	08/30/10 01:50 PM
Re: Where does the WAW go	FindingMyVoice	08/30/10 02:44 PM
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Re: Where does the WAW go	gucci loafer	08/30/10 03:53 PM
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