Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

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My fear is that if I tell her if she wants this she will have to pay for it herself, she'll say "you're not working with me" and then go get a L,

With what money? Protect yourself. Start putting your money in an account YOU control. Get new credit cards in your name only, pay off the old ones with the new ones, cancel the joint cards.

Protect yourself and your child. Listen up, buddy. She's trying to get you to pay for everything until she can find some other sucker. That's the only plan she could have that makes any sense at all. Cut her off. Stop enabling her.

She wants out. Let her go. Protect yourself and your child from her behavior.