Had a good C seesion this morning. I wanted to go before my first hearing this morning. We talked about tough love, dobson this extremely helpful website. He thought how ironic it was about "bumping" into old GF at church and we are going through the same crap. He said you can have friends that are women, just do what feels natural to you.
We touched a bit on the D, and how I feel about things. Told him I am keeping expectations at 0, but still have some hope. He mentioned to me what if your W says, hey this can stop. What would your reaction be? I said to be honest, as much as i miss and love her, I dont miss who she is right now. So in my opinion her changing her mind this soon, we would be back to square one, and I dont think she has had enough time in reality or in the bed she has made. So as much as I would want to make things work, I dont see it doing any good in the near future.
As I move on further and reflect, I dont think she has made any progress as far as her own issues. She buries herself with work, the kids and is tired all the time. Not muc room in there to work on herself.
