She thinks that I would abuse money or hold money over her head and there would be nothing she could do about it.
Dude, you are being gaslighted. You work, so the money--excluding child supoort--is yours. You could always file for divorce yourself. She needs to get a danged job.
When are you going to stop falling for this crap?
Tell her to get a job so she can pay for her lawyer, and you will pay for yours. And she can find and pay for her own place, etc. Time for both of you to grow up.
End of discussion. Big Girl panties for her from now on. John will not be manipulated so easily because he is no longer going to listen to his danged ego.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/08/1003:25 PM.
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