Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[john28]

really just trying to understand all my options.

I am pretty sure most of us told you to focus on yourself and your child, protect your assets, and let her go if that's what your wife wants. Don't argue with her about it.


You haven't done that. Trying to pull her back is the only option you are willing to try from what I can see.

That is a fair statement. I don't want to fight this anymore, she is going to do what she is going to do. I'm just trying to save us money. I'm not fighting this anymore. We don't have the cash to outlay for the legal separation right now... to the tune of $1500-2500. We're both stressing about that especially when she has no job and won't get one because she doesn't know what the custody arrangement would be, so she doesn't know her hours she can work. All of this has tapped out our savings and we are going paycheck to paycheck now.