Well put, PMA.

Why are you arguing about options that are available? You said yourself you didn't even know there were options by asking me to provide you with examples.

I provided you with an example and you said "well, sounds the same to me" You are married to a woman who has cheated on you MULTIPLE times and a separation agreement guarantees her transgressions will be eliminated from the proceedings.

You pick and choose the advice and alternate ideas based on what you like to hear. Get the separation but don't be *all* that surprised once it's in place and she has what she wants she dumps you for good.