Ditto what Johanna said, but I'd like to specifically add that if you have a background that tells you that sex before 18 (or marriage) is wrong, and you feel guilty or shamed about it, that could probably make sex later in life more of an issue.

I say this because I think - *think* - it was at least part of our situation, though it was more the desire to smother those feelings and feeling bad for giving in and setting boundaries lower than we should have that created some strain.

Other than that, or other sexual trauma... No, I can't see where it would be a problem. *shrugs*


I am turning in revolution these are the scars that silence carved on me