Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[TimeHeals]

"We're having a tough time in our marriage and we're taking some time apart."

What part of "don't believe anything they say" has you pouring over what she says 100 times?

I can't be with you

This is the only part I believe. Only you have to change the wording to:

I don't want to be with you

Hi, my name is john28, and I have codpendency issues. I cannot lovingly detach for the life of me. Everybody tells me to take the focus off of my wife (she will do what she will do) and put the focus on myself and my child and just be happy and healthy no matter what happens, but I won't do it.