Ok, I am going with aggressive busting, i have been a wimp since i have returned from training, which is very unlike me, i am usually an assertive and confident person. I feel like i can bring it up with a pretty cool attitude. I am not able to let this continue without making her aware that I know.

Wish me luck!!!!!

Me 25
W 28
M 5yr
S 18MO
Big Argument 6/13 (Anniversary)
Left for Military Training 6/14
Return 7/12
Seperated 8/1
D Bomb 8/7
EA Discovered 9/7
EA Busted 9/8