I forgot to tell ya I did buy her some chocolates that day so maybe it is an aphrodisiac....
NoCode... I agree with ya buddy but maybe I need to clarify some things. I do not NEED to talk about the affair. I want to. If W were to say. "I do not want to ever talk about it again" I would be fine with that. But call me a dreamer if you want... But I believe that a husband and wife should be comfortable enough with each other to discuss anything. And it is not so much talking about the affair it's self. But being able to TALK about any "elephants in the room"...
Saffie… Yes both W and I have both grown in many ways. So many little things that if I were to try to include then in the last letter it would probably shut down the DB server. She calls me when she is shopping to see if I need anything, when she stops go get Ice cream after picking up son from school she brings me home some…the other day she bought me some clothes. (Don’t remember the last time she has done that) ME…. well when she mentions something that needs to be done around the house I get on it as soon as possible instead of “forgetting about it”.. I have learned the sometimes when I tell W something she was not paying attention or forgot... and when I bring it up again or she asks about something I already told her. I simply just tell she again instead of (like in the past) made a big deal about “I told you that already” or weren’t you listening to me when I told you that…. Or just I already told you that” I find if I want my wife to treat me like her husband… I need to treat her like my wife…. NOT one of my kids…
Lotus… “Glad things are going well for you Doc. Sounds to me like she wants it, but she wants it to be your idea.”
This Friday … I am going to ask wife is she still has that night gown she used to wear. (She wears these full P.Js now. I am going to ask her to wear them Friday night because I want to talk again…..
Take care Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
