Howdy folks,

thank you all for your concern and encouragement; we'll just have to see where life is going to take us.

I have a question, based on my therapist’s conclusion:

-Do you think that having sex before 18 yrs of age could freeze one’s sexuality from developing and cause one to eventually become LD?

-Has anyone recognized this in themselves?

-How did you get over it?

My therapist spoke with my wife and thought that this might be part of her issues with me. It seems to me that it shouldn’t have had that powerful of an effect on her. She says that since the early sex was with me, that is, that we had a love connection and got married later, that negatively affected her sexual development.

Well, one thing is certain, I can’t change the past. I appologized to her for having sex with her when we were so young at the beginning of our relationship 15 yrs ago. ‘bout time to move on, no?

later, y’all....

AchingMan