As far as the other woman, I do not plan in to jump into anything. She said her divorce is final in about 5 weeks, after tomorrow's hearing, as long as there arent any red flags, mine will be done around the same time. I took S to school in this crazy weather from that hurricane that is bleeding in to North tx. Dropped D off at W's house, again was cheerful and happy, I think I woke the W up, it took her forever to come to the door, and she looked like she had been hit by a truck. We didnt exchange any words, I just hugged my D, she said "daddy I love you so much" I smiled and said it back to her.
I turned around and walked back to my truck. I do agree that I respond to things I dont need to, the speech I am sure will happen in the near future. Except for me responding to texts, I think she is getting the point somewhat that I am doing fine by my actions. As we all say actions are louder than words.
I will keep going on my journey and enjoy my life and my children