Faith- Sandi is an "Enchanter' as I like to call them. Follow her advice word for word.
Use the Dark Time to figure out the math.
Does your pay go into the joint? If not, get a separate account that can access the joint. Get your pay deposited into the Faith Only acct. If there is money in the joint now, put half in your acct.
Can you carry the house single handed? If not, get a roommate; borrow some money til the house can be sold.
Consider her money GONE. If her pay goes into joint, leave it there.
Again, talk to your lawyer about how to protect yourself from her financially. Do it YESTERDAY!! You need to know the financial obligations and how they will LEGALLY be settled.
