FI told him I'm undecided on whether to go to the final court date for the D. If evertything is decided I don't have to.
He said he didn't want to, but he did go so he'd save money. Instead of having his attorney go he went. That makes sense to me -- but I don't know.
How did everyone else handle it?
This is a great question, CTH. When do you find out if everything is settled between you and stbx? Are you guys in negotiations right now?
CTH, I have to go to court on Friday since motions were filed. As for the final hearing, I decided that if I do not have to go, I won't. I believe you can forego it if you pay a small fee. I know my brother did this in his D. He and his ex never went to court once.