Maybe she can with her boyfriend, but then why does she have to pay rent?
Her problem....not yours.
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She's not taking into consideration the dogs at all.
If she could replace her own H with OM, do you think she gives a rat's a$$ about a couple of pets? Please stop thinking of these dogs as children between you. Nobody is more tender-hearted toward dogs than I am, but the reason I keep bringing this subject up is b/c the pets have become a stumbling block in the road. You have bigger things to worry about.
Keep a personal journal or calendar and mark the date she last walked the dogs or even checked on them. Don't sweat the small things or you won't be able to hold your head above water. You love the pets, so take care of them. If it becomes too big of a burden then adopt them out to a good home. You just have to stay focused right now.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
