1. LD spouses can really make you feel like there is something wrong with having a sex drive. Make sure you understand that as long as your drive is not effecting your work, causing you to make bad decisions, endangering your health, or destroying your relationships, then it is HEALTHY AND NORMAL!!! Remember that it is not your "high" sex drive that is destroying your marriage. It is your spouse's lack of drive.
2. I'd be careful thinking that your leaving has prompted the spouse to "change their ways." The one time I left my wife she begged and pleaded and cried and promised to put more importance on our sexual relationship and we had awesome sex for the next week following my return....after that it was same ol' sh&t on a different day.
