First of all, who calls at that time of morning to discuss rent/house money? Secondly, I am so proud of you for ignoring her and not sending a TM or worse...calling her back. You've just begun.
You do not respond. You're dark. If she catches you somewhere and confronts you, you tell her you've been thinking what would be best. But here's the thing...you need to get all credit cards without your name on hers or her name on yours! You need to start a private bank account that she can't touch. This is protecting yourself. Don't think for a second she wouldn't wipe you out.
If she contributes to the joint accounts, then figure up what's hers and leave it. Do what you think is fair/right. As a former WAW, I think it would be a huge mistake to support her with anything. The more she can get from you or the more you pay what once was her part.....then the less likely she'll come back. Let her turn to lover-boy for her needs....and see how long the romance lasts then.
Stay off the TM & emails. I know you can withstand the temptation. Just ask yourself what or how would you handle it if she was deceased. Couldn't call her then, could ya?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
