Not sure where to start or end, WAW - #2

[Doodi]

John,

I'm so sorry that life hit you so hard and in front of her. I'm not surprised that she helped you...she does care.

But she's made it crystal clear to me there is nothing I can say or do anytime soon to change her mind about going down the road of a legal S and possibly D.

I have to say that you really need to accept that you truly CAN'T do anything to change her mind. You CAN'T control anything when it comes to her. It's not her making it clear...it's just the facts. It may be in your heart to fix this and that things you can do will change her path. If you go at your life with the sole purpose to 'change her mind' then this will never work. You have to do things for you and you only.

Be You. Control You. Focus on You. Good things will come to you...not because of her but in spite of her.

And whatever else, good or bad, happens you will have to deal with as it comes.

Smooches,
Doodi