Everything happens in it's own time. Your W obviously has needed to get things sorted internally and now she is gradually re emerging and opening up to you. It all sounds like it is going in the right direction.....and so it should - you have worked long and hard for this.....and might I also say, the amount YOU have changed has been amazing too. You have a lot to be proud of.
I may not post much these days but I do try to read along.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength