Thanks for the update. Have wondered how you have been doing since you are not as regular as you were.
I'm not doing any better with my ND H. He filed for D last week citing extreme mental cruelty. He wants the house...
I don't think that you are jumping the gun, but instead, facing a sad reality that many of us put off for a long time. Our spouses for some reason cannot share themselves with us in any capacity, and is causes us great anguish and pain that we cannot resolve, because they do not want or need us like we need them.
I am also scared what my future holds, but I know that I WILL be okay, just not right now. Great love takes great sacrifice. Obviously, our spouses can't make any sacrifices for us, but expect us to for them. I do not think that this is a mature or healthy attitude to have.
AM, do what you feel that you have to. You as well as bunches of others around here have tried and in the end, the results are the same, bitter dissapointment and heartache. I commend those that have made progress, but they are few and far between on the boards.
I'll check back from time to time. Take care of yourself
