Geeze, Corri, that was some GREAT advice. Listen to her, AM. She knows of what she speaks. I liked the "you're not giving up, you've just stopped doing her work" idea, tied with the "boundaries" theme. And the idea that it's not the fact that AM has lots of babes who would appreciate him (of course you do, AM, you're a HSM!), it's that he is worthy and deserving of appreciation.

These are lessons all of us, male and female alike, need to take to heart. Thanks for putting them into words, Corri.