It is so great that you are spending quality time with your kids. You are enjoying them, and I am sure they are having fun with you too.
That is too bad that the kids got into some posion Ivy, but it does happen. Kids will be kids. Don't worry about what your W says. I went thourgh the constant attitudes, and the W going off on tangents. Just keep focused on you and the kids, and you will be alright.
Definitely do not get defensive. You are approaching your sitch the right way. It is not easy for you I am sure. I know how it felt.
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