Your flattery is wonderful and so tongue in cheek I LOLed. Thanks, I needed that. I am having a different perspective being out of the house for over a month and little movement from him. Even if there were a "drop dead deadline," I think that would do nothing, either.
Feel as if I have been taken for granted by H all these years and I know I deserve more than what he is willing or able to give back in return. Trying to make that final decision, where you were several months ago, but each day I face it with a better frame of mind and not having the "beating a dead horse" feeling.
You have absolutly nothing to feel guilty for. You have given your M every ounce of your being, trying to get your W to understand that there is more to a M than clean laundry. There can be passion, fun, frivolity, and so much more if she would have just opened her eyes. Our Spouses are just blind to the "more" part of marriage and will settle for mundane everyday. You are on a journey as am I. Where it will lead, I have no clue, but I am becoming an explorer!!!!
Thank you for all of your support through my difficult days, too.
