Originally Posted By: courts0818
So I said, "I sure hope that you are not IMing OW because that would be really disrespectful."

He YELLS back, "I'm on the damn internet. Then mumbles, shut the F up. I can't stand you." I almost lost it. Any advice on how to handle it? I really don't want to just ignore, but he's not going to continue to speak to me that way. After what he's done, he's speaking to ME like that?


Set a boundary and be prepared to enforce it.

When you XXXXX, I feel YYYYYY. I want ZZZZZZ.
If you continue to XXXXX, I will QQQQQQQ.
Then do it.

Look up Coach's excellent thread on boundaries.

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