but he seems to have put me totally in his past. No looking back.
The emphasis here is on the word seems . I know it seemed my H had totally put me in his past, he wasn't paying his bills, my bills, child support, nothing to help me and the kids...when our home sold he said he needed the money to get his "business" going and would help me later....later never came...he spent all the money and then ran up a huge amount of debt...I seemed sure he didn't care about me and not much about the kids for nearly the full two years he was gone...
Just remember he is a little boy throwing a temper tantrum the only way he knows how...he can't take his toys away cause he already did that...he can't buy his new house and the OW is probably chewing on him and giving hime all these great "ideas" to get you to cower down to them...block her, ignore him, and let them woller in their own pity because the day will most likely come when he looks at her without those rose colored glasses and sees her for what she is and then regerets what he did to you because of her...
And even if that doesn't happen...you are going to be great...you will be happy, you will be a survivor and trust me, his life will never be what he thinks it is ...
