No not before. Ihave not detailed what led to him leaving, but I'm pretty clear on what made him leave in the first place - it was a reacton to me. So was getting and OW and all the anger, I suppose.
The above makes so much sense! I've always assumed it was his natural anger towards me. I did not realize this had to do with OW. I also did not realize he was doing prescription drugs illegally. All suspect. And why L is going to say that being with me is "best for the child."
Now if only to find a way to stop it. I have gone dim (Havent' done NC because I don't trust him with S - and he's shifted a stunning amount. He is playing "Mr. NIce Guy" now. More BS. It's who he was inbetween "episodes" when we were married.
IN some ways, this makes it harder for me to "catch" him raging with a tape recorder and such - which by the way he has found before, gotten more verbally aggressive, and even broke a tape recorder once.
