Wow. Everyone in the other forum seemed surprised, you do not.
But let me say that he has always had this side of him =- it's why I had pain in my marriage. I felt that it was when I tried to "talk" to him about it things would escalate and yes, I said and did bad stuff too. But I lived walking on eggshells previously, always wondering when I would get snapped at, insulted, grumbled at, blamed, accused, etc. INW - not a new problem.
However, it increased tenfold after we broke up.
What a nightmare this is! It's painful enough to be dumped for OW, but then to be verbally abused on top of that - and to have a child in the middle to top it off!
