You know Puppy, one thing I just realized reading your response. Not once has she said what she is willing to do to work on our marriage. The whole thing has been her deciding between me and the family and her lover. I have not heard her once say that she had a hand in what when wrong between us. I think I am tired of taking the blame for all of this myself!
I have made an appointment to get started in counseling. If for no other reason then for myself.
Soleil: I do know the OP. I am not entirely sure if she is still married. I know part of how this started is that she was having problems with her husband and that is how W started spending so much time with her. I think her husband is in the mil, and I am not sure how to contact him.
