FMV, thank you for stopping by Your suggestions are always so helpful. Since I started GAL, I thought about all those things - what could I do for myself, but I think you're right, I need to focus on them more. I already started planning a little weekend trip in 2 weeks time to a place I always wanted to go to. I wasn't so sure about it first but this morning I wrote an email to a friend who lives there saying I might be coming and if so, would she like to meet up. Thank you for reminding me of the importance of this!
One thing I have to say is that sometimes thinking of H, R and this whole situation drops upon me unexpectedly. I could be doing fine and then something reminds me of him and I miss him so bad.
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you