btw sandi, i noticed your question on re-reading the posts. keylogger program. what a godsend. the wife was in awe last night. how did you do that? she asked me. r u a hacker? no, just a motivated 42 y/o father of five children who happens to love you and recognize that you are doing yourself and all of us in the same boat with you grave harm.
one problem is dealing w/ a crazed spouse who has been exposed as a cheater, PEAs running rampant in her brain and irate as all get out with access to a joint checking acct writing checks as retainers for blood suckers, i mean lawyers. i am so tempted to change my direct deposit from the joint acct to one in just my own name. i do the bills now. i would periodically replenish funds for living expenses too.
