Hi Faith-

Let's see...

D-bomb around start of May.
Confirmed affair July long weekend.

So that's two months since the affair pain...and that's the BIG hurt.

I certainly can't say it won't resurface here and there but it's not allconsuming anymore.

I've actually been able to get some real work done in the last couple weeks.

I guess it turned into acceptance and surrender.

That's likely wher the sadness comes into play. But the happiness is also there, too.

Two months of REALLY hard mental work.

Scariest roller coaster ever. Like the infidelity diet, I don't recommend it.