The only reason he agreed to the settlement was if he had not we would have gone to trial. The trial would have included him and his mistress which I supposed he realized would not be a sexy way to start off the weekend!

Your H is guilty. He wants you to feel bad enough for him so when court rolls around he can be the victim.

Until your H says to you "sol, I called off the divorce and I want to see if we can work on our R in a real way" don't listen to his BS.

My H e-mailed me at 6:30am y'day to tell me he hurt his knee. He is in mind numbing pain and he will probably have to be on medication. He e-mailed me while OW was sleeping in the other room. He wants my help, the name of dr's, what meds should he take. My point in telling you this.. don't get sucked in!