New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

Frankly the school thing was interesting to me. It could be one of two things. She decided to let the kids have the extra time with you (more directly instead of as a spectator). Or she didn't want you to meet anyone at school. She might be uncomfortable with having to explain what you were doing there and/or why you aren't normally around. Who knows what she's actually told the kids teachers/coaches/friends/other parents.

Either way, the end result of having that extra time with the boys is of course great.

Her having not refiled is at least a sign that she is in no hurry. Which is definitely a good thing in that it gives you time to continue trying to turn things around. There have definitely been lots of good things, especially the last few months.

What do you think has been working the best? What can you do more of?