Like I said, H wanted to reconsile, just not immediately. I agreed to wait until month four for MC. Whenever I would mention D, he was the one saying, "no no wait a minute" ...his studio apt was month to month and only to be temporary.
He attended just a couple of MC apps before quitting. He was rageful the entire time and blurted out something about sleeping with someone else (and all the crap about how great it was and how all our problems were mine to own up to - of course) - at that time, I thought it was just once but he stopped going to MC, got a bigger apt with a lease, and started being rageful toward me and S.
That's the extent of my knowledge. It's totally unlike him too. He was the conservative one in our Marriage - I thought it was a reaction to our problems, apparently he's kept it going with her - although I don't know how intensely = for the past year. He's only mentioned it a handful of times.
Q: What are truth darts?
PS I have no idea if the "no paramour" thing exists - I hope so but if the lawyer didn't mention it, I don't know. I'll definitely ask!~
