I think forgiving is a process that is dependent on the action and/or incident. If someone broke your vase, the forgiving phase may be a lot shorter than if your spouse betrays you with an affair. It all goes back to the level of investment in the item or person. One could make the argument that it is a type of attachment. It is a matter of perspective.
Yeah... you're right about that. I know forgiveness is also something you do for yourself not so much as the other person. It is all relative though, isn't it??? (As to how much time it takes!)
