Hey Bk. my condolences go out to you. am going thru same. i did 2a. yest in fact. she is beside herself. i am soooo stressing that she will go for the D. ugh. reading Puppy's comments are huge comfort. the PEA's must be some sort of whopper. thank God the OMW's in my case is totally on my side. this guy himself is a total loser. makes me feel great bc she was going to choose the fantasy of that over me. i guess patience is the word. i gotta go home and see my kids, thank God i have them. i need to be me for me. you too amigo. it is zen. just be.
one time i saw that Allen recommended a really good book by Penny Tupy, Overcoming Infidelity. I need to read it as soon as I get home from work. it might help put things in perspective. it can help you too if there is indeed an OM. we are all here together. a community of like minded individuals making this journey together albeit separately. but thanks to the experienced posters like Puppy, Allen, Sandi it can make a huge diff.
what's the reasoning for holding back the intel? legal?
