I have just given it some thought. I guess setting him free is the way to go? But ultimately, I don't want to divorce, so how do I avoid being labelled as the one who pushed for it? I don't want to be the bad guy, I really want this to work.
I am waiting for the "How do I get through to you book" which is supposed to deal with passive-aggressive behavior that I think is exactly what my H is doing. Maybe it would be wise to hold off for a few days before making radical steps and read it first. In the meantime just not initiate any contact and be passive if he does?
Accept that there is only one thing you can change in life and that is you
