Originally Posted By: bklynt
Once person's "humiliation" is another one's "consequences."
Thanks for that.

I'm going to confront her and will do so when she reaches out to me or in two weeks time, whichever comes first so that I respect her distance and space and also am not pursuing.

I'm so F'ing pissed off. The high and mighty it's not my fault attitude is a bunch of b.s. hot air. I really feel like calling her on her b.s. but I know that will pour add gasoline to the fire. I guess it's all in the delivery. She's probably rewritten me out of her life in her rewritten history. When does a WAW wake up and get a good hard dose of truth and reality?

And here I slip into the dangerous "F her" territory. Arggghh!!!


Man, I hear ya on that. Being lied to,"re-written" as the problem, and then finding the truth is a bit overwelming. However, one positve thing I keep telling myself, is at least MY INTEGRITY will not fail again and I no longer feel "responsible" for my W's actions.

Just so you know, I'm fighting the wrath/rage/anger bug right now too, but TRY and subdue it. If you act on emotions, like many of us, it will not help US and actually justifies their thinking.

NO MORE MR. NICE GUY! Self control.