aside from the Legal documents, yes, we are separated now.
Her point then - she gave me her reason of being "done". She was moving out, it was over between us. She moved out - then I discovered what was going on (I don't know if.. or.. and how long while she was still under the same roof with me - all my computer discoveries were after she left).
She feels it was all legit - because she called "separation!" first, before I called her on the discovery about the OM.
Yes, I knew I blew it by divulging my methods of finding out. Her lying was killing me, so were my morals.
But this is WF's thread..and this sitch is in my past now.
Lesson's learned - I don't think she is with that guy anymore..anyhow.
