I have to say, I do respect your Morals by not wanting to spy. But it will change the situation, depending what and if you uncover anything.
Coach and Pinhead - do we always want to take this approach in this sitch?? If the W has already WA, is it pointless because it is not considered intrusive..because they "left you".
When my WAW left, I felt there was more to it (plus I had a hunch due to a brief email I saw from OM..made me suspicious). I installed a remote keylogger which also sent me screenshot reports. I confronted her on it a few times and she denied it (get ready for that). I was told it was none of my business because she left me, so its "ok" to do what she wants now.
I gave in and finally threw it in her face, I admitted to how I found out (my morals caved in). I told her how to remove the software and told her I would stop. I had seen enough. I think it just pushed her even further away, less trust in me. She said I invaded her privacy and now she is afraid to do anyhting without wondering if I am spying.
I don't mean to hiijack this thread - just wondering if there is a right time and a wrong time when it comes to internet reconaissence missions.
