The cheapest and best path is to negotiate with WAS. If that fails, move to parenting coordinator, mediator, lawyers, then last resort judges.
The only problem here is that she never wants to talk about it, she just wants her L to tell her what to do so she can absolve herself from any responsibility for the damage caused by the decisions.
I also wonder if I push too hard will that make her reconsider her child placement agreement and force us to go to court to get it settled by the judge. I guess I shouldn't fear that anyway, because I think he is more likely to go 50/50 than anything else anyway.
I guess what I am saying is that all these things maybe don't have to be decided RIGHT NOW, but can be resolved over time and perhaps that time will allow her to rethink her position. I just wonder if I am pushing too hard.
We were at my Mom's house over the weekend and we moticed that my Mom had taken down the wedding picture of me and W. Said she didn't want it hanging in the house anymore.