Was thinking about my situation over lunch and decided that I have started pushing pretty hard on getting everything resolved in terms of child placement, support payments, housing, etc.
Should I be slowing down a bit to wait and see where this goes rather than accelerating the situation?
What will slowing down gain you? Do you want to move on, or stay in the current situation?
I have read many times that DBing takes time and patience and that the divorce process can be as long or as short as you want it to be. Does slowing down a bit give her time to think about this more and perhaps time to change her mind?
While I really don't want to stay in the current situation for too long, I guess I am not really clear in my own head that I am completely DONE with this relationship yet. Would I take her back if she wanted to come back? I'm not sure, but the alternative doesn't look extremely attractive at this point either. I'm just not sure.........
