Exactly - the more you listen to his BS (and make no mistake about it, it's all BS) the further down you will spiral.
All talk and no action - pretty typical for a WAS. As I have mentioned, my H is one of the finest BS artists of all time. Do not allow your H to refine his "art" any further.
People that put their spouses through hell and then decide at the 11th hour to proclaim "this isn't what they want" or very, very cruel individuals. If he doesn't want "this" the person he should be calling is his attny, not you. Actions speak MUCH louder than words.
These idiots will tell you "divorce is my only option but I don't want it" LOL! It's ridiculous. That is equivalent to saying "well, I don't REALY want to blow my head off but I am going to anyway".
